Asic And Daily Conversaton
Do you feel nervous and forgetful when talking with English speakers?
When I was studying Spanish, basic conversational skills were the hardest thing for me to learn.
Whenever someone asked me a question, I would freeze up and forget how to talk.
When it came time to hold a Spanish conversation, I would suddenly forget everything I studied. That‘s when I realized that I had not been practicing my conversational skills.
I spent six years studying the language at high school and college, but I never got the opportunity chat with actual Spanish speakers.
The mistake that a lot of students, including myself, make when learning a foreign language is forgetting to practice real-world conversational skills.
Instead, we spend our time memorizing vocabulary words and doing workbook activities. And while these exercises are also important, they don‘t teach us how to speak naturally.
What You Need to Hold a Basic English Conversation
Being able to have a basic English conversation isn‘t hard—you just need to know how to express yourself and start with brief, simple conversations.
To hold a basic conversation, you need to be able to:
Introduce yourself and share some personal information. Talk about your needs and expectations.
Make future plans.
Talk about your career and your educational background.
Hold simple conversations with people you encounter in day-to-day activities, like shopping, going to the bank or going to the doctor’s office.
Greetings, Congratulation, Parting, Excuses, Thanks
Do you want to say more than ―Hi‖ and ―How are you?‖
And would you like to sound like a native English speaker now (instead of waiting until you reach the advanced level)?
You‘re in the right place!
Below are 30 basic phrases that people use every day. They are useful phrases that‘ll also help your knowledge of English grow.
First, let’s look at a few ideas for how to learn these new phrases.
As you read each phrase below for the first time, say it aloud four times. Yes, four times! (They‘re short phrases.)
Then, print this list of phrases.
If you have a conversation partner, ask your exchange partner to say the phrases while you record them on a smartphone, computer or recording device. That way you can listen to the recording and practice the
pronunciation by yourself at home.
Then, choose two phrases each day to focus on. Here’s what you could do every
day to learn each phrase:
Picture a situation in your mind where you could use the phrase. Imagine the other people in the scene and what they‘re saying. See yourself saying the phrase. Listen/look for the phrase while you watch TV, listen to the radio,
read blogs, etc. Then, use the phrase in casual writing. Write a tweet (on Twitter), a Facebook post or an email to a friend.
Finally, use the phrase in 2-5 real conversations.
These first eight phrases can be used in many different situations.
- Thanks so much.
This is a simple sentence you can use to thank someone. To add detail, say:
Thanks so much + for + [noun] / [-ing verb]. For example:
Thanks so much for the birthday money. Thanks so much for driving me home.
2. I really appreciate…
You can also use this phrase to thank someone. For example, you might say: I really appreciate your help.
Or you can combine #1 and #2:
Thanks so much for cooking dinner. I really appreciate it. Thanks so much. I really appreciate you cooking dinner.
3. Excuse me.
When you need to get through but there‘s someone blocking your way, say ―Excuse me.‖
You can also say this phrase to politely get someone’s attention. For example:
Excuse me sir, you dropped your wallet. Excuse me, do you know what time it is?
4. I’m sorry.
Use this phrase to apologize, whether for something big or small. Use ―for‖ to give more detail. For example:
I‘m sorry for being so late.
I‘m sorry for the mess. I wasn‘t expecting anyone today.
You can use ―really‖ to show you‘re very sorry for something: I‘m really sorry I didn‘t invite you to the party.
5. What do you think?
When you want to hear someone‘s opinion on a topic, use this question. I‘m not sure if we should paint the room yellow or blue. What do you think?
6. How does that sound?
If you suggest an idea or plan, use this phrase to find out what others think. We could have dinner at 6, and then go to a movie. How does that sound?
Let‘s hire a band to play music, and Brent can photograph the event. How does that sound?
7. That sounds great.
If you like an idea, you can respond to #6 with this phrase. ―Great‖ can be replaced with any synonym, such as ―awesome,‖ ―perfect,‖ ―excellent‖ or
A: My mom is baking cookies this afternoon. We could go to my house and eat some. How does that sound?
B: That sounds fantastic!
8. (Oh) never mind.
Let‘s say someone doesn‘t understand an idea you‘re trying to explain. If you‘ve explained it over and over and want to stop, just say ―oh, never mind.‖ You can now talk about something else!
You can also use ―never mind‖ to mean ―it doesn‘t matter‖ or ―just forget it.‖ In these situations, say it with a smile and positive tone, though. Otherwise, when you say this phrase slowly with a falling low tone, it can mean you‘re bothered or upset.
A: Are you going to the grocery store today?
B: No, I‘m not. But why—do you need something? A: Oh, never mind. It‘s okay, I‘ll go tomorrow.
Phrases for Learning English
As an English learner, you‘ll need to tell others that English is not your first language. You‘ll also need to ask native speakers to repeat phrases and words or to speak slower. The following phrases will be useful for this.
9. I’m learning English.
This simple phrase tells people that English is not your native language. If you‘re a total beginner, add ―just started‖ after I: ―I just started learning English.‖
My name is Sophie and I‘m learning English.
10. I don’t understand.
Use this phrase when you don‘t understand what someone means.
Sorry, I don‘t understand. The U.S. Electoral College seems very confusing!
11. Could you repeat that please?
If you‘d like someone to say a word, question or phrase again, use this question. Since ―to repeat‖ means ―to say again,‖ you can also ask, ―Could you say that again please?‖
We can say ―please‖ either at the end of the question or right after ―you,‖ like this:
Could you please repeat that? Could you repeat that please?
12. Could you please talk slower?
Native speakers can talk very fast. Fast English is hard to understand! This is an easy way to ask someone to speak more slowly.
Note: This phrase is not grammatically correct. However, it‘s used often in everyday (casual) speech. The grammatically correct question would be,
―Could you please talk more slowly?‖
That‘s because ―slowly‖ is an adverb, so it describes verbs (like ―talk‖).
―Slower‖ is a comparative adjective, which means it should be used to describe nouns (people, places or thing), not verbs. (For example: My car is slower than yours.)
A: You can give us a call any weekday from 8:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. at five five five, two five zero eight, extension three three—
B: I‘m sorry, could you please talk slower?
13. Thank you. That helps a lot.
After someone starts speaking more slowly for you, thank them with this phrase. You can use it in many other situations, too.
A: Ben, could you please make the font bigger? It‘s hard for me to read the
words. B: Sure! I‘ll change it from size 10 to 16. How‘s this? A: Thank you. That helps a lot.
14. What does ~ mean?
When you hear or see a new word, use this phrase to ask what it means.
A: What does ―font‖ mean?
B: It‘s the style of letters, numbers and punctuation marks when you type. A common font in the USA is Times New Roman.
15. How do you spell that?
English spelling can be tricky, so make sure to learn this question. You could also ask someone, ―Could you spell that for me?‖
A: My name is Robbertah Handkerchief. B: How do you spell that?
16. What do you mean?
When you understand the words one by one, but not what they mean together, use this question. You can ask it whenever you‘re confused about what someone is telling you.
A: The Smiths do have a really nice house, but the grass is always greener on the other side.
B: What do you mean?
A: I mean that if we had the Smith‘s house, we probably wouldn‘t be happier. We always think other people have better lives than us, but other people have problems too.
Phrases for Introducing Yourself and Making Friends
Here are some phrases for introducing yourself when you meet new people, and questions to learn more about them.
17. Hi! I’m [Name]. (And you?)
Here‘s an informal greeting you can use when you meet new friends. If the person doesn‘t tell you their name, you can ask ―And you?‖ or ―And what‘s your name?‖
Hi! I‘m Rebecca. And you?
18. Nice to meet you.
After you learn each other‘s names, it‘s polite to say this phrase.
A: Hi Rebecca, I‘m Chad. B: Nice to meet you, Chad. A: Nice to meet you too.
19. Where are you from?
Ask this question to find out which country someone is from. You answer this question with ―I‘m from ~.‖
Can you answer this question in English? Say both the question and answer aloud right now. (Four times, remember?)
A: Nice to meet you, Sergio. So, where are you from? B: I‘m from Spain.
20. What do you do?
Most adults ask each other this question when they meet. It means what do you do for a living (what is your job).
I think this question is boring, so I ask other questions. But many people will probably ask you this, so it‘s important to know what it means.
A: What do you do, Cathleen?
B: I work at the university as a financial specialist.
21. What do you like to do (in your free time)?
Instead of asking for someone‘s job title, I prefer to ask what they enjoy doing. The responses (answers) are usually much more interesting!
A: So Cathleen, what do you like to do in your free time?
B: I love to read and to garden. I picked two buckets of tomatoes last week!
22. What’s your phone number?
If you want to keep in contact with someone you just met, ask this question to find out their phone number. You can replace ―phone number‖ with
―email address‖ if you want to know their email address.
You might also hear people use the more casual ―Can I get your ~?,‖ as in,
―Can I get your phone number?‖
It would be great to meet up again sometime. What‘s your phone number?
23. Do you have Facebook?
Many people keep in touch (contact) through Facebook. Use this question to find out if someone has a Facebook account. You might also ask, ―Are you on Facebook?‖
Let‘s keep in touch! Do you have Facebook? Phrases for at Work
Finally, here are seven basic phrases you might use at a job.
24. How can I help you?
If you work in customer service, you‘ll use this phrase a lot. It‘s also a common phrase when answering the phone.
[On the phone]: Hello, this is Rebecca speaking. How can I help you?
25. I’ll be with you in a moment.
When someone wants to see you, use this phrase if you need a minute to finish something first. If a client is waiting at a store, you can also use this phrase to show that their turn is next.
You can replace ―moment‖ with ―minute‖: ―I‘ll be with you in (just) a minute.‖ Another common phrase for this situation is ―I‘ll be right with you.‖
Good morning! I‘ll be with you in a moment.
26. What time is our meeting?
You can use this question‘s structure to ask the time of any event: ―What time is [event]?‖
If you want to ask about a meeting on a certain day, add ―on [day].‖ For example, ―What time is our meeting on Thursday?‖
What time is our meeting on Wednesday?
27. Please call me (back) at…
When you want someone to call you or to call you back (to return your call), use this phrase to give your phone number.
Hi, this is Cathleen from the financial office.
I‘m wondering if you found those missing receipts. Please call me back at 555-5555. Thanks!
28. (Oh really?) Actually, I thought…
When you disagree with someone, ―Actually, I thought…‖ will make you sound kinder and more polite than saying ―No‖ or ―You‘re wrong.‖ This phrase is useful when you have a different idea than someone else.
A: So Sam‘s coming in tonight at 8, right?
B: Actually, I thought he wasn‘t working at all this week. A: Oh, ok. I‘ll have to look at the schedule again.
29. Actually, I [verb]…
Just like in #28, you can use ―actually, I…‖ with many different verbs:
―heard,‖ ―learned,‖ ―am,‖ ―can,‖ ―can‘t,‖ etc. You should use it for the same situation as above: when you have a different idea than someone else.
A: Did you finish the reports?
B: Actually, I am running a bit behind, but they‘ll be done by noon!
C: When you type, always put two spaces between sentences. D: Actually, I learned to put a single space between sentences.
30. I’m (just) about to [verb]…
When you‘re going to start something very soon, you‘re ―just about to‖ do something.
I‘m just about to send those faxes.
I‘m about to go and pick up some coffee. Do you want anything?